Some very sobering thoughts on suicide…

I read an article this morning that got me thinking. Both about my own experience with suicidal thoughts, behavior and the dramatic increase i have been made aware of in suicide and suicidal thinking in children and adults.

I don’t know how my ignorance slipped past the fact that suicide is the BIGGEST mortality rate of men between 25 and 40. These are prime years for devaluation. Why are we spending our prime years so unhappy, waiting to exit this material world.

I think it’s time to find a solution, in the horrible event that this phenomena increases in numbers afflicted, as I don’t see it getting any better the more I am in the communities.

Both sides of the perception are correct, and by that i mean, does suicide come from inside the victim or outside the victim?

as all truths are half truths, though i think the responsibility falls on us as adults to acknowledge that it is not really productive or logical to blame children for not getting better after someone has Perniciously abused the child severely.

When mental health literature points to children as young as 7 and 8 expressing a desire to take their own lives we have a very serious problem that we need to look at in how we are managing and creating bonds and connections.

Ok so now we have a problem, we need a rule equal. A solution rather than going around in circles, never getting results. For starting rehab, I have often thought about the effect of healthy predictive programming in their environments following a trauma or environment that is conducive to suicidal thinking and behavior.

I don’t know how a child with toxic self image has the experience to move out of those negative circuits if the positive ones have never really been validated and allowed to grow. I know in my case between my abusive old man who was a drunk, and my devaluations, I never really had a chance to build true healthy happy circuits so to say. Only to have what i thought was happiness entrenched in shiny object syndrome to trigger different levels of excitement.

I guess the abuse worked in reducing my emotional spectrum to the big three, excitement, fury and rage.

This is where I speak of healthy stimulation of the emotional spectrum.

I know in my experience with Pernicious abusers that some times, they view you as an appliance, a function of something without understanding the nature of such beasts.

It is so hard to see inside of someone without our own personal filers from projections. Most of us se

through my own experiences and research, i must ask the question if Is there a correlation between the bonds and psychic connections we create with our children and serious suicide rates.

I am going to assert that the main cause of such prolific mental health issues in today’s time is devaluation. Devaluations occur on a daily basis and are nothing strange to this current world.

When i look over my research into final narcopathic cycles and how traumatic bonds and a severe destruction of the self image are created.

When a monster never quits abusing the victims self esteem and self image, in an intimate or even interpersonal relationship, the damage on the individual’s consciousness is well documented. Surely there must be a time when we take a good look at this phenomena and associate a correlation between devaluation and suicide rates. This phenomena is not going anywhere until we find it unacceptable.

Devaluation is often used in place of component conditioning.

There are certain presentments that should be considered with narcopathic possession in mind, taking a deeper look into the situation behind the scenes. This is where Pernicious abuse detection has immense value.

I know myself I have been stigmatised and grieved for the traumas I have. Some of them are mine and some of them are definitely not mine. I remember saying it’s not really that complicated, Devaluation equals spiritual death and soul death. The dark hole that this kind of abuse causes really is like quicksand.

I did not put myself in this trauma, I got stuck with trying to find and fix it. I wasn’t born traumatised, this is something that we achieve through trauma control techniques and grand strategy, and i think we are in trouble if the damage from such behavior does on others cant be seen.

Not a single person on this planet likes devaluation, and i am sure there is enough literature

around to describe the effects of pernicious abuse on the human psyche and mind.

So how do we assist to treat narcopathic abuse?

I know myself it has not been easy, especially when I discovered how close the devaluations were to me. As humans we are experienced based consciousness, this is why a human baby takes time to experience the world. An example of this might be when deer or horses are born, within a few minutes they are walking, whereas a human baby must build data from experience to draw on for action.

Now I don’t write about my part in repairing this, and that is why I get angry sometimes because I honestly see and argue this as having been executed against me, bearing the sins of abusers so to say. Another toxic form of victim shaming and if we are shaming our children or anyone after being abused, then it is a wonder why we have so many problems with sustainable rehabilitation.

As a child, the level of abuse, both psychological, physical and sexual is extreme and disgusting. And I think the results showed. I had breakdowns all growing up, behavioural modification clearly didn’t work and every time i get myself to a good spot again, i met a Pernicious abuser who i give benefits of the doubt and before i know it, i have allowed myself to be devalued in an epic way.

I don’t know if once a personality has been spit how well it goes back together.. There are clearly issues with fusion of the personality after a split. What is the answer? I don’t know, but the conversation about Pernicious abuse and Narcopathic abuse needs to be considered when any presentment arrives.

This is where I hope I can help as a consultant? If there are cases you suspect are at risk and can’t see where the strategy is coming from, I can offer my perceptions and experience to work with you to achieve the results we need to get our children and young adults, even our grown children back to their full functional creative self.